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The Damage Of Staying In “Suck”

The Damage Of Staying In “Suck”

So many of us, myself included, stay in sucky relationships, jobs, behaviors, etc. out of fear. Why is this? Even if a situation or feeling sucks, sometimes the suck is better than the unknown because you know what to expect with the suck. You’re comfortable […]

Panic Attacks And Your Amygdala

Panic Attacks And Your Amygdala

Did you know you have a guard dog? Yup! Your amygdala is your unconscious guard dog. How many of you have suffered a panic attack and had no clue what triggered it? Have you ever been hit by a fast-moving freight train called anxiety? If […]

Your Mind Is Tricking You

Your Mind Is Tricking You

Chronic anxiety symptoms are often similar to the symptoms that arise when watching a scary movie. Even though you’re not in real danger, your mind tricks your body into believing that it is and you get scared. All your mind needs is a scary picture to feel afraid. You can become scared just from looking at words on a page. Prime example, Stephen King!

Let’s pretend you are at the theater watching a scary movie. I imagine you’d become scared and cover your eyes at some point. If you sat through the whole movie and didn’t run out of the theater, you’d come to realize your feelings of danger was simply your mind playing a trick on you. You were never actually in danger, yet you felt as if you were. Anxiety is the exact same way! 

I don’t know about you, but the more I watch a scary movie, the less it terrifies me. The same goes for anxiety. The more you sit through it, the less terrifying it will seem. It’s all about sitting with that fear and knowing it will end. Reminding yourself, “That silly mind of mine is playing a trick on me again.”

I challenge you to sit with your anxiety the same way you’d sit through a scary movie. Feel the symptoms and know that they will end. Remember, the more you ride through the waves of anxiety, the more tedious it’ll become.  

Are you a scary movie fan? Let me know in the comments.

What Is Anxiety

What Is Anxiety

Double tap the picture if you know what anxiety is.  Anxiety is a future focused worry, concern, or fear that you can’t control. Have you ever found yourself anxious about something that hasn’t even happened yet, but you are already running though your mind “as […]

Fear vs Anxiety

Fear vs Anxiety

Fear and anxiety often get lumped together when people talk about anxiety, however, they are two totally different emotions. ⁣⁣⁣⁣Both fear and anxiety are part of your bodies natural alarm system known as fight-or-flight. ⁣⁣⁣⁣Let’s use a roller coaster to break this down…⁣⁣⁣⁣Anxiety is the […]